How to Use a Masturbator: First-Time Tips
By Twisted Beast Poppers | Next Day Delivery | Published: 2026-10-18
Category: How-to Guides
New to masturbators? This guide covers prep, lube, cleaning, and common mistakes to help you get the most out of your first session.
Quick answer
Start with plenty of water-based lube, warm the toy to body temperature, and go slow. Clean before and after each use to keep the material safe and hygienic.
Why preparation matters more than technique
A masturbator's soft silicone or TPE feels very different from your hand. If you rush in, the lack of glide can cause friction burn or make the experience uncomfortable. Taking two minutes to warm the sleeve and apply lube changes the sensation completely.
Temperature also affects realism. Cold silicone can feel jarring. Running the toy under warm tap water for 30 seconds (check the care instructions first) brings it closer to body temperature and relaxes the material for a better seal.
The one trade-off with softer materials
Ultra-soft silicone, like the blend used in the Naberus, stretches more easily and cushions thrusting, but it also traps air if you don't angle the sleeve correctly. A small air pocket can kill suction. The fix is simple: squeeze the base gently as you enter to push air out before you start.
Step-by-step: your first session
- Warm the toy: Submerge the sleeve in warm (not hot) water for 30–60 seconds, or let it sit in a bowl of warm water. Dry the outside with a clean towel. This softens the material and makes the initial contact feel more natural.
- Apply lube inside and on yourself: Squeeze a generous amount of water-based lube into the canal and spread a thin layer on yourself. Reapply if you feel any drag. Common mistake: using too little lube, which causes chafing. More is always safer when you are starting out. If the sleeve feels tight or pulls, add more lube — not more force.
- Release trapped air: Before inserting fully, squeeze the base of the sleeve gently to push any air out of the canal. This creates a consistent vacuum and prevents the toy from making popping sounds or losing suction mid-session.
- Control depth and pace: Start with shallow strokes and increase depth as you feel the material stretch around you. Grip the sleeve's outer surface — not too tight, or you will collapse the canal. Let the texture do the work. If the sensation is too intense, back off on depth or slow down. A death grip numbs the experience. Relax your hand and let the toy's internal texture provide the stimulation.
- Clean immediately after use: Rinse the sleeve under warm running water and wash with a dedicated toy cleaner or mild, fragrance-free soap. Push water through the canal several times. Pat dry with a lint-free cloth and store in a breathable bag away from direct sunlight. Silicone and TPE are porous over time. Skipping cleaning even once can trap bacteria and shorten the toy's life.
Product spotlight
- Naberus: The Naberus uses an even softer silicone than normal and has a tail that stays upright during use. The extra-soft material means you need less lube than with firmer toys, but you still need to work the air out of the canal for consistent suction.
Naberus
